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MEN WEEKS and
Bi MEN CONFERENCES
ON THE ROAD AGAIN
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REGARDING Bi MEN NETWORK
PARTY WEEKENDS and Bi MEN CONFERENCES
1. Who is the sponsor?
Unless otherwise noted all these events are sponsored by our
own Bi MEN NETWORK - www.bimen.org
- the world's largest social and support organization for
bisexual, bi-curious and gay adult men aged 18 to 118. Some
events have cosponsors where another group or groups may join
us in shaping an event but this is not the norm. From time to
time a commercial enterprise may be deemed a "sponsor"
for commercial support for the event - if so this will be noted.
Private sponsors - as individuals - are welcome to discuss sponsoring
an event with the BI Men Network - if so interested contact
Bi Men Founder Stewart "MAC" McCloud at (email@example.com).
2. Just what are these Bi Men Weeks and Conferences?
These Bi Men Weeks are both social and support and workshop
events for our membership with a focus on our bisexual and bi-curious
male members. All gay members are welcomed to attend as they
have much to offer our bi and bi-curious guys. The social activities
are for all guys - and the support activities are for everyone
but DO have a bisexual and bi-curious male focus. NO WOMEN or
MINOR MALES allowed at these events. All men attending must
be of legal age. Our new SSS Bi Men Weeks include events each
with a support hour with a support group; and then a social
hour with a lunch meeting or happy hour; and then conclude with
a Sexual Workshop hour. So something for everyone! See the EVENTS
pages for more details on each and every event we host.
3. Are all these events CLOTHING OPTIONAL and CASUAL?
Some of our events are held at clothing optional sites - but
we have held and hold many events in straight mainstream hotels
and will do so often. CLOTHING OPTIONAL is just that. Wear what
you want - as little or as much. Much depends on the weather
and your personal preferences. All members are encouraged to
bring a pair of gym shorts and a T-shirt or tank top for ALL
PURPOSE WEAR. Also ALWAYS in a nudist setting bring two towels
- one to sit on and keep dry - and one to dry yourself off -
after the pool or hot tub or such. All our events are casual
- so let your hair down and let it all or almost all hang out!
Our events are where you can be yourself and let it ALL hang
out! For sure!
4. What type of guys attend these BI MEN Events?
It is best on this subject to take a quick look at the results
of our outside paid DEMOGRAPHIC STUDY at: http://www.bimen.org/BiMenMI.htm
- there you will get a clear and accurate view of our membership.
Our members tend to be bi and gay males - 35 to 55 and these
are the guys who are in the majority at our events. We have
some bi-curious, metrosexual, and polyamorous men who also attend.
We have some young guys but NO ONE is encouraged to attend who
is LOOKING for twinks. Most of our events will allow 18, 19,
and 20 year old men attend if they so desire (unless the HOST
property or state law or both require the young men there to
be 21). We do have many, many mature men - i.e. over 55 years
old who attend. They are also very welcome! The more the merrier.
The very refreshing thing about bi guys is that they seem far
more open to all types of men - young or old, smooth or hairy,
cut or uncut, tall or short, Latino, Black or White, chubby
or skinny, and the list goes on. We seem to just like most men
period - womb to tomb - !!! LOL!
5. What if I am NOT "God's gift in the looks department?
especially in the nude?
Few of us at these events are "God's gift" or body
beautiful or Mr. Right. We are all God's children and you will
find a loving and supportive environment. If you don't want
to get nude at a clothing optional event - wear some shorts
or bathing suit and a T-shirt or tank top and hang out. A lot
of guys just have fun dressing loosely and letting their balls
and members hang loosely from baggy shorts. Some guys like to
wear JOCK STRAPS or work around other fetishes as wearing leather
chaps and boots or such. Have fun - just be yourself or be who
ever you'd like to be that weekend. Just remember who you are
when you go home and back to work! BUT with us let your hair
down and let it ALL hang out!
6. What if I get an erection in a social setting or
other inappropriate situation?
We are all adult men and have ALL seen the unusual ERECTION
at the gym, in the locker room, or in the showers. If you are
ill at ease - that is why you should always have two towels
with you. One to sit on and one to cover your piping hot member
if you so wish. UP to you. You will always get a few glances
checking out your "family jewels" - we are all curious
- but that will pass. Not to worry.
7. Can I bring a friend or guest?
This is MEN ONLY - and you should be TOTALLY UPFRONT with your
male pal or guest - a guy 18 (or 21) and above about the event.
NO surprises on any straight buddies or straight guys you have
been carrying the torch for. This is not the venue to spring
your sexual preferences or your fantasies about some straight
guy on HIM. IF you have been open with him and have shown him
our Bi Men website and these EVENT pages and he is excited about
and UP to attend with you - FINE! No women at all - PERIOD.
We are not looking for guys out to their wives to bring them
- nor are we seeking fag hags to hang out with - these are MEN
ONLY events. These are good events for many bi-curious guys
and the new metrosexual guys - and polyamory guys - but only
if they are UP for it and know what they are getting into here
We make no excuses - these are our own Bi MEN events - sponsored
by our Bi MEN NETWORK for our own membership and our friends
8. When should I register and reserve space?
REGISTER EARLY if you are SURE you want to attend an event.
SPACE is often limited at many of our events. Also the better
quality lodgings go first and go fast. You can ALWAYS attend
at the last minute but you may have to buy or rent a tent to
stay on the property or get a day pass and stay at a nearby
motel (and in most instances last minute motel rooms will be
as expensive if not more so than the best lodgings on these
sites). Mac can often help you with guidance about lodgings!
There are THREE aspects of REGISTRATION and attending
these events and you must attend to all three - they are:
8a. BI MEN REGISTRATION
ll who attend our events must REGISTER with "Mac"
beforehand or at the door with Mac McCloud and/or the Registrar/Cashier
The earlier you register the better and you save money. Also
if you can not attend your event/s your Registration can be
used at another event the same year or future years. Paying
early saves you money and also helps the BI Men Network get
the "seed money" we need for deposits and other upfront
costs. ALSO early Registrations may come with some offers from
"MAC" and the BI Men Network - this varied from year
to year - event to event.
At this time early REGISTRATION before September 10, 2011 is
only $20.00 for EACH Bi Men Week events for 2011. Space is limited
for our Bi Men Week events in Los Angeles and Orange County,
CA and in the Phoenix, AZ area so if you want to be sure you
can attend register early and pay online or by mail and save.
You can save on 2 to 3 events at only $35 total. You can really
save on up to six events at only $69. If space is still available
after the cutoff date (September 10th) the cost will be $25
cash only per event. There will be no option to pay otherwise
8b. YOUR TRANSPORTATION
Your transportation to and from the event is up to you. If you
wish to "car pool" with other Bi Men members put up
notices on your local Bi Men Group. Many of these events do
welcome RV's and they will be very handy at a few of these Bi
Men Party Weekends. IF you have an RV - and want to bring it
- and are open to sharing it with other guys - great. Feel free
to put up notices on local BI Men Groups or touch base with
"MAC" about sharing an RV. IF you like to rough it
sleeping in the back of an RV or camper or such - fine - just
discuss this with the HOST property.
8c. RESERVATIONS FOR ANY LODGINGS YOU MAY NEED IF YOU
ARE FROM OUT OF THE AREA
As noted, make your reservations EARLY with the host property
where Mac is has his host suite or nearby that venue. It is
your choice. Stay where MAC is staying or nearby at a similar
property or a less expensive one or if you prefer a more expensive
one. IF you make a firm and paid reservation and find out LATE
that you can not attend "MAC" will try to resell your
lodgings. At almost all of these Bi Men Events you can attend
at the last minute on a day pass and sleep in some motel room
near Mac or nearby. BUT if you really want to have the best
time possible - REGISTER EARLY - and RESERVE YOUR FIRST CHOICE
OF LODGING EARLY. You will be happy you did so. SOME events
will sell out of quality bargain lodging space VERY EARLY. IF
you want to commit to the best lodgings (near MAC in most cases)
book early and pre-register early and save! Do your best to
make sure you will have the best time by preregistration and
early booking! Be sure you will be able to come and save money
too. If you are a local you, of course, do not need lodgings
where Mac will be staying - the host venue - or nearby.
8d. After you register, make sure that you make your
hotel and transit arrangements:
Do remember that your preregistration with the Bi Men Network
does not cover your lodgings and your transportation. So one
you pre-register attend to those matters promptly. You will
save money if you register early and will also assure that you
can attend. Space is limited.
9. What about liquor and drugs?
NO UNLAWFUL DRUGS PERIOD. Liquor as local laws allow. In one
instance we had an event in a dry county. If you like to wet
your whistle on the weekend be sure to bring your own to assure
you are happy. At some events we will have a keg or two - and
there are always cocktail parties in Mac's suite or other venues.
BUT it is strongly suggested that YOU bring what you will want
to consume and share with you. It is suggested that every member
bring at least one six pack of beer and/or one six pack of sodas
of your preference to share and grab some ice on your way over!
10. What can I expect as far as PROGRAM and ACTIVITIES?
event is different as you can well imagine. All are casual and
all have swimming pools and most have hot tubs. See each event
for activities and we are seeking Activity Directors and Sports
Directors for each event. As noted these all are MEN ONLY events.
Program details elsewhere - see the EVENTS pages here at the
Bi Men Network website for particulars.
11. What about M4M sex?
t every Bi MEN event over the last 12 years SEX HAPPENS. If
you want some - you will find some. IF you do not want sex -
none is forced on you. IF you like to watch - there are usually
opportunities some way some how for you to watch - overtly or
covertly. NO SEX FOR SALE is tolerated PERIOD. If you are some
young hung hustler don't waste your time on these events. There
will be NO SALE or if so you will be expelled by our Sergeant
of Arms with NO refunds! IF you are seeking to make new friends
- for fun or friendship or both - it does NOT hurt to have goodies
to share. So bring your own favorite booze, beer, sodas, munchies
and be nice and share. Bring condoms and lube too. Bring lots
of towels. You may be surprised how many friends you can make
bringing your toys! Plan to be warm and friendly and you'll
get laid Bring your little black book to log in new hot phone
numbers and Email addresses of all your new friends! We always
have fun PRIVATE XXX PARTIES each night at every Bi Men Getaway
Weekend for our PAID attendees only. No outsiders permitted
to attend the XXX parties - registered/paid men only.
12. What about coming alone?
Do not hesitate to attend solo. Frankly it is the quiet guys
with nice lodgings or privacy - generous with their companionship
and shared refreshments who get the most action and go home
with the most phone numbers and/or Email addresses for future
contacts. Be yourself - and strive to be warm and friendly.
Don't be shy or if you are painfully shy try to give some "Come
hither" hints or indications. At a clothing optional resort
there may be instances where your "body language"
does more than enough to demonstrate that you are interested
and up for warm companionship. We often have name tags at least
the first day to help break the ice and give you a name with
his face or ___. Volunteer for a job if you are SHY as this
is often a great way to feel more at ease and have "reasons"
to chat up other men!
13. What about coming with a bisexual or bi-curious or gay buddy?
If you come with a buddy be sure that HE and YOU both understand
what the event is all about. Don't spring any Bi Men Party Weekend
on him without full disclosure. IF he freaks out and scurries
on home - try to get a ride back home with someone else on Sunday
or Monday. Many problems will NOT manifest if you and your buddy
or buddies fully discuss the weekend ahead of time. IF a traveling
companion sounds like he may back out be prepared to PAY ahead
for both of you and go alone - or get a roommate later on. IF
your buddy is your "boyfriend" talk it out about playing
with others either alone or as a threesome or moresome. IF you
are NOT going to play with others either alone or together -
politely let this be known to any suitors lest you or the pair
of you get a PRICK TEASE reputation! A prick tease reputation
can be hard to shake when and if you show up at future events
SOLO. Plan ahead! You can also place ads locally in your area
looking to share a ride and/or a room at any Bi Men Party Weekend
and you will often be very nicely surprised at both the responses
and the quality of men you will meet locally - whether they
end up coming with you or not! Ask Mac on suggestions how to
"RECRUIT" a shared ride or shared room or both for
It is a good idea for you and any buddies to discuss the event
on the way there - your expectations and your concerns - from
both of you - so that you are both fully prepared.
14. OTHER QUESTIONS - may not be as frequently
asked - but they are important to us! Send your QUESTIONS directly
to "MAC" McCLOUD - at bitxnmac
at msn.com - prompt replies are the norm with us at
your BI Men Network - and spread the word to all other bi and
gay men you know!
"Mac" for more info at: